{"id":9859,"date":"2023-11-22T23:18:24","date_gmt":"2023-11-22T23:18:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/dev.webhostlabs.net\/synergy\/?p=9859"},"modified":"2023-11-22T23:18:27","modified_gmt":"2023-11-22T23:18:27","slug":"infanticipating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.webhostlabs.net\/synergy\/2023\/11\/22\/infanticipating\/","title":{"rendered":"Infanticipating"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><b>Letter from America.<\/b><\/h1>\n<p>I am having a baby in a few weeks.\u00a0 Well, not I, exactly; my daughter is expecting her third daughter, but it might as well be this now-seasoned grandmother who is experiencing the joys of pregnancy.\u00a0 You see, when I speak with my daughter over the phone, I seem to feel every kick she describes to me, every comment made by others to which she is subjected, every little worry that sneaks into her consciousness in the middle of a sleepless night, and all of the excitement so evident in her voice when she mentions the impending birth.<\/p>\n<p>I have stared at countless sonographic snapshots of this soon-to-arrive bundle, searching for the slightest resemblance between the babe-in-utero and her mother, her father, her sisters, and, of course, for any resemblance to me!\u00a0 I wonder what color hair she will have and whether or not her personality will be noticed mere days after her birth, as they were in her sisters.\u00a0 Will she be an \u201ceasy\u201d baby, a \u201cdifficult\u201d baby, or a combination of both?\u00a0 Will she be an early talker?\u00a0 An early walker?\u00a0 Ah, who the heck knows?\u00a0 Only time will tell.<\/p>\n<p>Time (or the lack thereof):\u00a0 That\u2019s what has kept me going like a house afire in this late stage of pregnancy.\u00a0 Because my first two granddaughters were born precisely two weeks prior to their respective due dates, I\u2019m preparing for another early arrival.\u00a0 But babies don\u2019t place too much stock in timetables, so perhaps I shouldn\u2019t, either.<\/p>\n<table class=\"mceItemTable\" border=\"0\" align=\"left\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>Maybe I\u2019m jumping the gun; this wee lass, whose name is Jillian, by the way, could make her grand entrance in mid-April, as her anticipated date of birth was originally calculated.\u00a0 On the other hand, if my daughter\u2019s obstetrical history means anything at all, I can\u2019t rule out an April Fools\u2019 Day birth, either.\u00a0 In any event, because I will have to drop everything to hop on a plane the minute Baby Jillian decides to make her appearance, I\u2019m fully prepared to leave New York for Atlanta with minimal advance notice.\u00a0 My carry-on bag is sitting on the floor, right next to my closet door.\u00a0 It already contains a few travel essentials.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"easy_img_caption\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"lazy-loaded\" title=\"baby jillian\" src=\"https:\/\/dpnlive.com\/images\/stories\/graphics4\/baby%20jillian.jpg\" alt=\"baby jillian\" width=\"350\" height=\"350\" data-src=\"\/images\/stories\/graphics4\/baby jillian.jpg\" data-jchll=\"true\" \/><span class=\"easy_img_caption_inner\">baby jillian<\/span><\/span>Anything I forget to take with me can be as easily purchased down South as it can be up here (with the exception of pizza\u2014there isn\u2019t a decent pizza made anywhere in the State of Georgia, no matter what anyone tells you\u2014but I wasn\u2019t planning to take a large pie with me, anyway).\u00a0 I have treats for the big sisters who, while their mama recovers from childbirth, will be in my care until my other daughter\u2014Aunt \u201cDeedee\u201d to these two older girls\u2014flies from Chicago to Atlanta in order to assume my duties after my (sure-to-be-tearful) return flight to New York.\u00a0 After my relief childcare provider leaves, the newly enlarged Morhaus family will be on their own.<\/p>\n<p>In the meantime, though, I am going to savor these last days (or weeks) of \u201cmy\u201d infanticipatory state.\u00a0 I won\u2019t have swollen ankles, nor will I have difficulty finding a comfortable sleeping position at night.\u00a0 Unless I gobble up more than my fair share of a New York pizza, I\u2019m unlikely to suffer from even a mild case of heartburn.<\/p>\n<p>When labor begins, I won\u2019t feel the slightest twinge of a contraction, so there is no need for me to take a refresher course on Lamaze breathing techniques.\u00a0 Most certainly, putting a midwife\u2019s phone number on speed dial will be entirely unnecessary.\u00a0 But if there is one thing I am positive about it is that I\u2019ll\u00a0<b>imagine<\/b>\u00a0all of the above.\u00a0 Going through pregnancy and childbirth with one\u2019s daughter is surprisingly close to the real deal, although I have no idea why that is so.\u00a0 What I\u00a0<b>do<\/b>\u00a0know is that I\u2019d do it again in a heartbeat!<\/p>\n<p>In parting, as they say in the southern U.S.A., I\u2019ll keep y\u2019all posted.<\/p>\n<p>By Cara Sheridan O\u2019Donnell.<\/p>\n<p><span id=\"cloak37900\">This email address is being protected from spambots. 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